do things "You can just do things" is step one From the optimism of possibility to engaging the hard work of reality, "doing things" is about finding a balance — a harmony — in opposites.
meta Real life's a mess A lunch goes sideways when a guest’s emails spark a mix-up. It’s a lesson in life’s uncertainty vs. digital’s fake ease. On embracing the mess.
The Library The Anxious Generation A book review of Jonathan Haidt's The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness, including selected quotes and material.
The Library Pre-Suasion by Robert Cialdini How do you influence people by indirectly preparing them to be influenced? Find out in Robert Cialdini's second book on persuasion, Pre-Suasion. A review and quotes.
Frame Agenda-setting theory Media can't control what you think directly, but it can influence what you think about indirectly — this is the key to Robert Cialdini's agenda-setting theory.
Frame Daniel Kahneman and What You See Is All There Is A good story will turn anyone into a sucker. That's the insight of the rule of WYSIATI, a cognitive bias from the 2011 book Thinking, Fast and Slow.
Parable The blind men and the elephant What an ancient story about the limits to our perception teaches us about our fragmented modern experience.
Frame The Fogg Behavior Model for Persuasive Design The BJ Fogg Behavior Model (and the B=MAT formula) offers a methodical approach to building behavior change into products, services, and marketing. A primer.
Frame The SCARF model of motivation The SCARF model by neuroscientist David Rock helps you troubleshoot — and even engineer — motivation, right into your product, service, or marketing.
Frame How do you walk toward desire? Your primer on how desire paths reveal what people want, helping them achieve certainty and efficiency along the way.